{"id":285,"date":"2025-09-24T12:27:22","date_gmt":"2025-09-24T09:27:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/?p=285"},"modified":"2025-09-25T14:28:01","modified_gmt":"2025-09-25T11:28:01","slug":"iliskiler-konusunda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/?p=285","title":{"rendered":"ili\u015fkiler konusunda"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><br>fikir vermeniz gerekiyor mu? bu konuda pek iyi oldu\u011fumu s\u00f6yleyemem. s\u00f6z benim ne diyece\u011fim noktas\u0131na geldi\u011finde &#8216;kaybol falan diyorum ama \u00f6yle kaybolmu\u015f biri ol ki&#8230; ya da &#8216;b\u0131rak bunu yanl\u0131\u015f anlas\u0131n ama sadece bunu de\u011fil senle ilgili her \u015feyi yanl\u0131\u015f anlas\u0131n &#8230; t\u00fcr:romantik komedi. g\u00f6n\u00fclden s\u00f6yledi\u011fim {ben yapar\u0131m olur sen yapars\u0131n olmaz} bir tak\u0131m say\u0131klamalar<br><br>the roses da ili\u015fki \u00fczerine bir film. m\u00fckemmel \u00e7ifti benedict cumberbatch &amp; olivia colman oynuyor. kolayca a\u015f\u0131k olup hemen evleniyorlar. [kendinden \u015f\u00fcpheye d\u00fc\u015fersin] g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fte her \u015feye sahipler. \u00e7ok tatl\u0131 giyinip harika \u015feyler yiyorlar. sonradan ya\u015fanacaklara dair dikkat \u00e7ekici hi\u00e7bir i\u015faret yok. \u015fakac\u0131 hareketler zeki g\u00f6zlemler. ili\u015fkideki sessiz 3.taraf uykuda. sonsuza dek sahip olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn ne gibi ayr\u0131cal\u0131klar varsa o.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>peki bu bereketli zamanlarda ili\u015fkinin kileri dolduruldu mu? hayat\u0131n tersliklerine kar\u015f\u0131 -su\u00e7lamada bulunmadan nas\u0131l hissetti\u011fimizi s\u00f6yleyemezsek sonradan bize ne olur? \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n favori ebeveyni olmay\u0131-ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir kariyeri-ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir e\u015fi-\u015fahane manzaral\u0131 bir evi hepsini kendinle bir hizada tutabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek ve birinde terse d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde kontrol\u00fc kaybetmek <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>film 1989 g\u00fcllerin sava\u015f\u0131&#8217;n\u0131n yeniden \u00e7evrimi ve bir roman uyarlamas\u0131. senaryoyu poor things&#8217;ten tony mcnamara yazm\u0131\u015f. y\u00f6netmeni \u00f6zellikle sona do\u011fru giden o korkun\u00e7 tuhaf yolun muzipli\u011finden belli austin powers&#8217;dan joy roach. ve \u015fule g\u00fcrb\u00fcz de insan ara s\u0131ra evini yakmal\u0131 ve \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p seyretmeli demi\u015fti kambur&#8217;da. uzun ili\u015fkide bir klasik midir her \u015feyin kontrolden \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>hemen \u00fczerine a big bold beautiful journey vizyona girdi. &#8220;bazen ger\u00e7e\u011fe ula\u015fmak i\u00e7in rol yapmam\u0131z gerekir, rol yapmak ac\u0131 vericidir ama bazen ac\u0131 iyidir&#8221; diyor rent a car g\u00f6revlisi farrell&#8217;e, film b\u00f6yle ba\u015fl\u0131yor. kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131zda bir tak\u0131m kap\u0131lar, \u015femsiyeler, tuhaf bir gps cihaz\u0131, margot robbie ve collin farrell var. ikisi bir \u00e7ift de\u011fil ve bu da bir \u00e7ift hikayesi de\u011fil. hikayenin b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131sm\u0131 karakterlerin erken d\u00f6nem travmalar\u0131na odaklan\u0131yor. bunun yeti\u015fkinlikte ili\u015fkileri nas\u0131l sabote etti\u011fini bir kere daha ve bir kere de bu filmde g\u00f6r\u00fcyoruz. \u015funa biraz dikkat edin l\u00fctfen<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ilahi m\u00fcdahalenin radar\u0131na girmeyi hak etmek i\u00e7in kovalamacada canlanan bir adamla ili\u015fkiyi par\u00e7alayan bir kad\u0131n olmaktan daha fazlas\u0131 gerekmez mi? hikayeyi bu ba\u011flamda zay\u0131f bulanlar en az\u0131ndan ad\u0131 &gt;&gt; b\u00fcy\u00fck, cesur, g\u00fczel bir yolculuk&#8217; olan film i\u00e7in daha g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir hikaye beklermi\u015f; lise a\u015fk\u0131 yaras\u0131 m\u0131 anne yaras\u0131 m\u0131? yar\u0131 tanr\u0131lar bununla m\u0131 ilgileniyor yani <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ge\u00e7enlerde hafta sonunda moda&#8217;dayd\u0131m, toplu nikah merasimi az evvel da\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f gibi kafam\u0131 \u00e7evirdi\u011fim yerden kolunda mini gelin buketi ta\u015f\u0131yan \u00e7iftler geliyordu. yeni modern insan bir tak\u0131m kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 gelmelere ili\u015fki taklidi yaparken \u00e7i\u00e7ek al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finin ne sak\u0131ncas\u0131 olabilir<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>s\u0131n\u0131rlara \u00e7ekilen yeti\u015fkinler merkezdeki ili\u015fki kavram\u0131n\u0131 yitirmi\u015f g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor. ama toplum m\u00fchendisli\u011fi yine ili\u015fkiler \u00fczerinden yap\u0131l\u0131yor. ge\u00e7en hafta the economist&#8217;in kapa\u011f\u0131nda iki ebeveyn bir k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuk ve h\u00e2l\u00e2 avm otopark\u0131 vard\u0131, ezoterik bir \u015faka gibi: mahvolacaks\u0131n\u0131z &gt;&gt; avm otoparklar\u0131nda. y\u0131llar y\u0131llar \u00f6nce sex and the city gibi bir diziye y\u0131\u011f\u0131lm\u0131\u015f onca ikonik karaktere ra\u011fmen sezonlar sezonlar sonunda gelinen o nokta: e ne yap\u0131yoruz bu evlilik i\u015fini? ili\u015fkiler neyse de bazen yol yapmak i\u00e7in de rol yapmak gerekir, g\u00fcn bat\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 tamamen yanl\u0131\u015f anlam\u0131\u015f g\u00f6ky\u00fcz\u00fcndeki, pembe bi bulut gibi<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"512\" height=\"512\" src=\"https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/cropped-IMG_20250826_195823-scaled-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-281\" style=\"width:476px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/cropped-IMG_20250826_195823-scaled-1.jpg 512w, https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/cropped-IMG_20250826_195823-scaled-1-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/cropped-IMG_20250826_195823-scaled-1-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/cropped-IMG_20250826_195823-scaled-1-270x270.jpg 270w, https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/cropped-IMG_20250826_195823-scaled-1-192x192.jpg 192w, https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/cropped-IMG_20250826_195823-scaled-1-180x180.jpg 180w, https:\/\/bubenimhayatim.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/08\/cropped-IMG_20250826_195823-scaled-1-32x32.jpg 32w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 512px) 100vw, 512px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>fikir vermeniz gerekiyor mu? 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